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Am un iubit, dar imi place un alt tip: Ce ar trebui sa fac?

de Sonya Schwartz

Derrick si cu mine am fost iubitori de liceu la North Western High, Rock Hill, Carolina de Sud. In cele mai multe zile, luam autobuzul acasa impreuna pentru ca sta la cateva blocuri de casa mea. Am fost aproape nedespartiti in ultimul nostru an senior. Am solicitat chiar si acelasi colegiu, asa ca nu a trebuit sa facem fata distantei. Acum ca suntem la facultate, dragostea noastra a devenit mai puternica. snapchat cheating porn pbase.com Este al doilea an de intalnire si speram sa ne casatorim intr-o zi. Aveam sa terminam basmul dupa facultate.

Am fost tot Derrick pana cand profesorul meu de engleza a introdus un elev de transfer, Kyle, care tocmai s-a mutat in Carolina de Sud, la clasa. Venise de la Charleston. Era blond si inalt si dragut. scott schwartz porn mrlessonone8.cavandoragh.org Mi-am luat o placere instantanee. M-am gandit la ce va fi sa-l sarute. Nu stiam ce e in neregula cu mine. Adica, am avut un iubit pe care l-am iubit atat de mult. De ce simteam atractia asta fata de un alt tip?

Am patit pe ganduri cat de tare am putut, dar am descoperit ca zile dupa ce Kyle a fost introdus in clasa, inca imi placea. sarah calanthe porn getlessonlab4.fotosdefrases.com Sentimentele mele pentru el erau din ce in ce mai mari. De asemenea, nu ne-a ajutat sa avem clasa de engleza aproape tot timpul. Nu a redus in niciun fel iubirea pe care o aveam pentru Derrick, dar stiam ca simt ceva pentru Kyle. Mi-am pastrat-o, dar m-am simtit oribil. M-am tot intrebat cum e posibil sa ai un iubit si tot ca un alt tip. porn droid yourlifemaster9.huicopper.com Am inselat deja?

Nu avem un control total asupra celor pentru care avem sentimente, dar am inteles ca gandul te face sa te simti ingrozitor ca si cand ai inselat partenerul. TREBUIE SA TE RELAJI si sa te intrebi daca esti prea greu cu tine sau nu.

Profesorul David P. Barash, autorul Out of Eden: The Surprising consequencies of poligamy, este de parere ca fiintele umane sunt poligame in natura. Prin urmare, inselaciunea vine in mod natural pana cand ati luat decizia de a nu insela. rat porn easycoachtech4.fotosdefrases.com Cercetarile au aratat ca 50% dintre cei aflati in relatii au sentimente pentru ceilalti.

Este perfect normal sa te simti atras de oameni. Nu esti imun sa gasesti oameni atractivi doar pentru ca esti intr-o relatie. Daca esti om, adica. Si as dori sa cred ca si tu, citind acest articol, esti om. futaba porn lovelovesoft6.wpsuo.com Ideea mea este ca zdrobirile sunt normale si nu trebuie sa insemne nimic. A te zdrobi in timp ce te afli intr-o relatie este rau doar atunci cand:

  • Permiteti-l sa determine modul in care va tratati partenerul
  • Hraneste-l in loc sa-l inghiti in mugur
  • Actioneaza asupra lui

Cum poti face fata sa iti placa un alt tip atunci cand ai un iubit? Acest articol va identifica lucrurile pe care ar trebui sa le faci si ceea ce nu ar trebui sa faci.

Ei bine, pentru a sti ce ar trebui sa faci, ar trebui sa-ti pui singur urmatoarele intrebari:

  • Relatia dvs. este una serioasa?
  • Ai nevoie de o pauza?
  • Se intampla asta des?
  • Care sunt asteptarile tale pentru relatia ta?
  • Esti fericit?
  • Preferi relatia ta actuala cu cea pe care crezi ca o poti avea cu noul tip?
  • Ce nu va place la relatia dvs. actuala?
  • Poti trai fara partenerul tau?
  • Este cu adevarat dragoste ca te simti?
  • Merita?
  • Va produce tristete si durere?

Cred ca daca puteti raspunde cu sinceritate la aceste intrebari, atunci veti sti ce ar trebui sa faceti ori de cate ori va aflati in aceasta situatie. skinny latina porn livecoachlab2.wordpress.com

Ceea ce nu trebuie sa faci

Nu flirtati intentionat

Flirting-ul intentionat ar insemna ca v-ati propus sa va inselati iubitul. Desi flirtul nu este o inselaciune completa, nu va trece mult pana cand va deveni asa. O femeie care este intr-adevar indragostita de partenerul sau nu va flirta cu un alt barbat decat daca iubirea nu lipseste din relatia ei actuala sau ii lipseste un fel de grija si afectiune

Nu-l ascunde de celalalt

Daca aveti o intelegere pe altcineva decat pe celalalt semnificativ si o ascundeti, este posibil sa actionati asupra acesteia si cand partenerul dvs. va afla, acesta este cu siguranta sfarsitul relatiei. Cel mai rau lucru pe care il poti face este sa-l pastrezi de prietenul tau si, daca simti ca ii iese in cale, fii sincer de dragul lui si al tau. interracial rape porn articlescad.com

Nu inselati

As pressured as you might feel, do not cheat on your boyfriend. I would have to lay extra emphasis on this point. If you are no longer interested in having a relationship with your boyfriend, do him a favor and dump him. Don’t string two guys along. Doing that will make you selfish and you may end up losing both of them in the end. unwanted impregnation porn artlifeart1.wordpress.com

​Here is what you should do instead:

Clarify what you are feeling

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​Feelings of infatuation may look like real love from the start so there is need to clarify what you are really feeling. Do you feel like you love the other guy more than you love your boyfriend? If you don’t, then it is a phase which will pass with time and an effort to stay faithful to your boyfriend. However, If you do, then it means you might have fallen out of love with your boyfriend and you need to start figuring out what you have to do about the relationship. If and when you decide you should be with the new guy, you have to make a clean break from your boyfriend first. Ending things with him at this point will save you both a whole lot of time and heartbreak. zabivaka porn yourlifemaster9.huicopper.com

​Imagine breaking up with your boyfriend

​Try to picture yourself breaking up with your boyfriend. Do you feel relieved? Or do you feel like you are going to be miserable? How you feel about your boyfriend can be a pointer to whether you need to leave the relationship or stick to it.



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If you feel relieved to put an end to the relationship, then you are just wasting precious time with him. On the other hand, if you feel miserable at the thought of losing your boyfriend, then you are in the right relationship and your crush is just temporary.

​Make up your mind

​Cheating when you are in a relationship with someone is about the worst thing you can ever do to your partner. furry dog porn youcoachhub3.godaddysites.com Apart from the fact that it destroys the relationship, it makes it difficult for the partner that is cheated on to trust fully in subsequent relationships. It is better to break up with your partner and go for the new guy if you feel that’s what’s best for you, than being with your boyfriend and cheating with someone else. So, if you have to break up please do.

​Be realistic

​Emotional attachment is often the result when two people are within close range over time. Is this new guy a colleague at work whom you have spent time with? Is it really love you are feeling? Do you really see yourself with this new guy you’re crushing on? Are you compatible? What are the signs that say you are? Is the feeling of love mutual between you both or is just on your end? You have to be realistic about these things so you don’t make decisions you will end up regretting. young adult porn realinfonetwork2.theglensecret.com Whatever you realize from your findings will determine if you need to act on your crush or not.

​Think about staying

​Things could change for the better if you really think about staying with your partner. Thinking about it gives room for analyzing what exactly has gone wrong in your relationship. This could lead to discovering the problem and finding a solution. For instance, if you feel that you are having a crush on someone else because your relationship has become boring, you could think of ways to reignite the passion in your relationship. reach around porn mechalduue.doodlekit.com Go out on dates and do the things you used to do(that brought you together in the first place). Try to make the relationship work again.

​Communicate

Talk Dirty to Your Boyfriend

​Honesty is the best thing you can gift your partner at this point in time. It  may sound crazy but it’s the right thing to do. Talking to your partner about it actually shows that you don’t intend to cheat. madison carter porn storeboard.com It may sound weird but you can tell him those things you find attractive about the new guy and find ways to incorporate it into your relationship. He may not take it well at first but with time he will. If he wants things to work, he might want to recommit to you and the relationship. If the new guy makes you feel all hot and bothered, then I guess its time for you to get closer to your boyfriend. How much you communicate with your partner determines how well your relationship with each other fares. young porn tubes blogfreely.net The saying “proper communication is key to having proper , healthy relationships” is not popular for nothing.

Spend less time alone with your crush

​While having feelings for someone else while you have a lover is inevitable, you as a person have to make efforts to avoid cheating if you are happy in your relationship but you feel like you might act on your crush. Do not put yourself in positions where its easy to cheat if you can avoid it. For instance, if it’s your study partner that you are getting the butterflies for, you could switch partners or invite someone else to read with both of you. That way you guys have no privacy for whatsoever to happen. killer frost porn easycoachtech4.fotosdefrases.com

​Don’t be hard on yourself

​You feel terrible about having feelings for someone else while you are in a relationship, yes, but that does not make you less of a good person than you are. Cut yourself some slack because it could literally happen to anyone. Most times we don’t decide what happens within our minds and bodies. Or hormones get the best of us so don’t be quick to judge or look down on yourself for finding someone other than your boyfriend attractive. It just goes to show that the new guy must really look good and you are able to notice it as the human that you are. violet star porn lovecoachart8.tearosediner.net

​Expect anything

​Issues like this in the relationship could blow up and yield anything. You could either stick to your boyfriend and continue your relationship, or you get attached to the new guy, or you lose them both. If you stick to your boyfriend then fine, but if you end up single again, it is not the end of the world. It’s probably the time to switch to self-discovery mode. Don’t get depressed, it might be that you weren’t destined for either of them. gwen singer porn greenloveclub0.yousher.com Focus on yourself and brace yourself for better experiences.

Conclusion

Liking someone else at the same time you are in love with your boyfriend is inevitable. But as long as you do what is right by your partner and aren’t intentionally flirting after other guys, then the crush can just remain what it is, a crush. Flirting is dangerous as it can lead you want more which in turn leads you to cheat.

​The key however, to coming out of this situation unscathed in your relationship is COMMUNICATION. martial arts porn thelessonlive7.raidersfanteamshop.com Talk to your significant other about what you feel and seek ways of making your relationship work, together.  You can go for a weekend together, plan romantic dinners and have time away from other people to reassure yourselves.

On the other hand, if what you feel is more than a crush, and that the spark in your relationship is gone, be open to your partner and decide what is best for you.

Can a relationship ever survive this situation?

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Sonya Schwartz

A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr „Right” and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married. violet smith porn pbase.com You can read more about me here…